Nature...!

Sajida is not happy.She thinks that she is not beautiful .She do not own good cloths and gold jewellery .So,she do not have right to smile and respond to little happiness in her life until her dreams of having wealthy life is not achieved.Adeel is very short heighten boy .He thinks that the world will be beautiful enough if he becomes a little more taller.He is intelligent student but Short heighten steel all his confidence.Sana is a girl having all luxuries of life .She have loving parents ,a big family of cousins and wide circle of friends but still she thinks that she is alone.There is no one to understand her .There is no one to have confidence and believe on her.She wants a life where she should be the center of care and attention .So,to achieve this she behaves strangely like not or talking at all,quarrelling with others all the time.Rashid ,He owns medium business.He do have all what a man can desire for but HE HAVE FOUR DAUGHTERS ,that's his wish of life time to have at least one son.He gave everything to his family except love and affection.Her daughters never Saw their father in good mood.
And in the same way I can give hundreds of examples of such type in which People are not happy with their lives.They always for the things they don't have.They portray themselves as the saddest people of the world so that people around them must condole them.Be pitty on them.I don't know why people are not happy at least with the blessings they already have.

We all know that no one is perfect and similarly no one can have a high profile perfect life.There are some blessings which may be not enjoyed by you but ALLAH must gave you something in extra to bear that loss.We always listen that Allah loves his men more then a mother ,even 70 times more then that.So ,how can one complain ALLAH again and again for a thing which he don't own but his fellow man does.There are some secrets about each man's life which sometimes he himself is not aware of but ALLAH knows everything .What ever he does to you ,he did it well to protect you and even prevent you from bigger loss.I think we should not ask ALLAH that why he do not gave us this and that.We should be happy with what we have.If doing so is difficult then at least look at the people who are suffering more then you.They have nothing to eat ,to wear .They have dismal education and health facilities.You are asking for Gold jewellery ,they even don't have skin left to wear it.You ask for tall height but they don't have feet to even stand on it.You ask for Son but they have many ill mentally retarded sons with no medical treatment.You ask for company of people who should care about you but they don't have anyone to even feed them and wipe their tears.

So,be happy on what you are.

Pick little happy moments out of your life.

Love and be-Loved.

Thank Allah.

That's the solution to your most self-made problems.Wishing you happy smiling life...

Regards,

Saima