Shopping:)

Well before writing down all my observations about shopping i should admit that i myself cant believe that i will be writing on such non serious topic since shopping no doubt how powerful and addictive it is,is considered as a thing which is not good and off course it should be avoided to save money.At least in my family lots of shopping is not liked.Shopping is very relaxing event .i must say that we walk here and there and look out for the things we need and even for the things we don't need. we wonder,experience new things,new"inventions" in streets of fashion and beauty .common sense says one have to be exhausted by doing that much effort while shopping which includes bar gaining too but no practically shopping ease your mind and gives you happiness while you buy the most desirable things.Shopping is good for nerves.though spending money is not good but in game of shopping when you buy you favorite thing with good quality and at cheapest then it gives you sense of accomplishment and self esteem.Self esteem?? yeah self esteem after buying a good thing at cheapest price force you to think that yeah i am very clever and i can get what i want.this seems silly but true at times.Shopping lets you meet many amazing things though you don't need them but still you have a look on them.I never worn big hats in my life since i don't like them but once i saw it in good presentation i just had a look on them even said to my mom should i buy one?? she says are u mad?? what will you do with it?? I was ashamed but i admit the craze for new things and their presentation in market sometimes let you buy things which you don't need at all.Another aspect of shopping is your buy criteria the more refined,defined and strict criteria you have for shopping the more you will suffer wondering in market for an"ideal" thing you want.i was doing the same mistake i just used to sort my criteria of many "shoulds" before buying a product and believe me i never find a thing on my pre defined criteria.so i left this approach.Before going on a shopping you just need to prepare your mind for buying what instead of buying how???.making a shopping list is advised on many forums and i strongly agree with it.Once you make a shopping list you can save your time,money and effort.write down each and every thing you want even the smallest accessories should be mentioned.i must say this is the most smart way of shopping.Bar gaining is just part of shopping.I don't like bar gaining at all even it goes in favor of women but still bar gaining should be avoided because it takes away your good shopping spirit and waste of time and energy.If you can afford a thing easily no matter how the price is high then you should avoid bar gaining because at end of day as a good lady it don't look good to argue for some bugs with the people you don't know or don't want talk to.If I write more and more on shopping then i hope the space for note will be finished.so let me wind it up by saying that shopping is an art,do it as its needed and in the way you enjoy ...at the end of the day excess of everything is harmful.

(Do share your interesting Shopping experiences if any...! we can learn something good from each other)

regards,

Saima